This blog is about anger and hate.Although it is not about random hate.Its about hate and anger against child abuse and neglect and against the biggest evil of all, indifference and apathy.

This is not a blog about recovery from child abuse because i think recovery is a very personal thing.

I just wanted to add my voice and to encourage others to add theirs.We all have different stories but we’re one voice.

Survivors, SPEAK OUT.

( Sorry ” A Father’s Neglect, a memoir” which is my story is no longer on public view until is gets edited ). Then it will be on public view again.

I suggest people join organizations like and others to help put and end to child abuse and neglect and to change laws so that the people who abuse or neglect children pay for their crimes and that children get at least justice.Something due to statue of limitations or ‘geography’ some of us never did.

“Apathy and evil. The two work hand in hand. They are the same, really…. Evil wills it. Apathy allows it. Evil hates the innocent and the defenseless most of all. Apathy doesn’t care as long as it’s not personally inconvenienced” Jake Thoene.

“In order to escape accountability for his crimes, the perpetrator does everything in his power to promote forgetting. If secrecy fails, the perpetrator attacks the credibility of his victim. If he cannot silence her absolutely, he tries to make sure no one listens.”
― Judith Lewis Herman, Trauma and Recovery

“Part of the history Herman sets forth explores why people tend to shun and try to silence trauma survivors. She writes, “It is very tempting to take the side of the perpetrator. All the perpetrator asks is that the bystander do nothing. He appeals to the universal desire to see, hear, and speak no evil. The victim, on the contrary, asks the bystander to share the burden of pain. The victim demands action, engagement, and remembering.” Judith Herman MD.

“Indifference is not a beginning, it is an end. And, therefore, indifference is always the friend of the enemy, for it benefits the aggressor — never his victim, whose pain is magnified when he or she feels forgotten…” Elie Wiesel.

“To neuroscience emotion is not merely a collection of thoughts about a situation: it is a biological process triggered by our environment……………”

Highly recommended reading on the subject: “The Boy Who Was Raised As A Dog” Bruce Perry PHD, “Born For Love” (about empathy) Bruce Perry PHD, “Trauma and Recovery” Judith Herman MD, “People Of The Lie” Scott Peck MD, Andrew Vachss articles at And Bruce Perry website